Secret Southern Couture: 5 Ways to Feel More Attractive and Sexy Immediately   

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

5 Ways to Feel More Attractive and Sexy Immediately

For ladies, being attractive is as much about how they look as to how they come across. As we’re all very well aware, if you feel confident, then you’ll act confidently and once you do this you automatically appear sexier and are more attractive to others around you.

Needless to say, there are a number of ways to make you feel a lot sexier and more attractive and we’re going to list some of them below.

Add Red

According to psychologists the colour red is the sexiest and most arousing one and people who wear it are more inclined to feel frisky. It’s a colour we associate with Valentine’s Day, roses and a whole lot more and it seems to have a positive impact on our libidos too.

A Quick Massage

 Stress and feeling attractive don’t tend to work well together, so why not go and get a quick massage at lunch time before going home to your guy or out on a date. It’s a certain way to help you chill out and also feel sexy. Loosen up and just enjoy yourself. Alternatively, let him do it when you go home.

Buy Some New Underwear

There’s nothing as nice as new, attractive underwear. We can’t tell you what suits you, but there is a select kind of sexy lingerie that will ensure that you feel a lot better than you would in a t-shirt and a pair of gym shorts in bed and heat things up in the boudoir.

Alternatively, pyjamas made from satin can also be a luxurious and sensual addition that will make you feel hot under the collar when in bed. Satin is also great for air flow, meaning even when things get steamy, you will still be cool.

Out and About

On a night out, it’s important to feel confident in yourself. If you’re with your guy why not travel to a bar or place with couches rather than stools – you’ll be more likely to get close and feel frisky.

Touch therapists have also found that stroking someone’s arm or neck lightly is one of the most effective ways to make them feel aroused. In addition, live music is also said to make people feel more in the mood than recorded – so choose a live music venue for best impact and feel your best.


Changing you appearance a little can be a great way to get a bit of a kick and improve your self-esteem.

Your hair is quite often the most important area to alter and people will ask, ‘what has she done?’ or ‘did she do something different?’ People notice and it’s a nice way to receive some complements that will make you feel good about yourself. Alternatively, changing your perfume, a part of your make-up, or some part of your beauty regime can make you feel epic and really get you in the mood.

There are all sorts of different ways to feel a little more sensual, sexy or attractive and these are just some of the fabulous ways that work for us. What sort of thing works for you – why not comment below.